Why you should talk to strangers | Kio Stark
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"When you talk to strangers, you're making beautiful interruptions into the expected narrative of your daily life -- and theirs," says Kio Stark. In this delightful talk, Stark explores the overlooked benefits of pushing past our default discomfort when it comes to strangers and embracing those fleeting but profoundly beautiful moments of genuine connection. TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and much more. Find closed captions and translated subtitles in many languages at http://www.ted.com/translate Follow TED news on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/tednews Like TED on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/TEDtalksDirector
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she has a beautiful voice
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i love strangers,kids they act spontaneously
i hate friends or tj8se who knew me specially in my worst cpnditions or pastbeforei become aware
im anxious when my father talks to me .. i cant communicate with him
and this always happens
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who felt sad or anxious watching this?
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I tried this today. I tried to get noticed and it worked! An old man walking past me told me to cheer up. I wasn't actually sad, it was my thinking face. But it worked! He responded.
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No offense, but if you need a stranger to make you feel like your existence as a person was noticed, you probably need to reevaluate some things in your life
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الابتسام نوع من أنواع الصدقة ما أعظمك يا رسول الله صلي الله عليه وسلم
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A woman once asked me for directions on the street and we ended up taking the train together. She was very friendly and we talked a lot! It was my first time having an actual conversation with a stranger and at the beginning I was really unsure what to share and what not to share, what to ask, and what not to ask. But as we talked more, I didn't really have to worry too much about it, everything just came naturally. It was then when I realize how great it feels to connect with a stranger. It's really nice to be able to learn something about someone, hearing glimpses of their story. Sometimes it just feels good to talk to someone you don't know and probably won't see afterwards, to talk to someone outside your social circle.
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i literally feel like i want to go out and talk to everyone i meat on the street!
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When a stranger talks to me I'm just thinking "Please, can you not?"
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This talk opened my mind. I have been taught to be wary of strangers all my life... but statistically, being friendly does make more sense.
Why are we... over 90% of the population act like everyone could have been a criminal waiting to harm us when only a really small group of people are that disruptive?
We should remain cautious, but not to the point of making enemy out of everyone we have never even talked to. After breaking out of that bubble, the human world indeed can have a lot more friendliness than previously imagined, which unfortunately got missed out on.
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Talking to strangers are beautiful. Even though sometimes u have to hide a part of truth, it's good to have Someone to talk to, or listen to.
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"Stranger Danger!!" ~every elementary teacher ever
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Man, this audience is not laughing at her subtle jokes. Way to make her totally uncomfortable! I always try to laugh at jokes during a speech, just because I would want others to do the same for me in their shoes.
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I'm a stranger. Feel free to talk to me.
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she is the best speaker
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I find that I can hold a pretty good conversation with people. I just don't get a chance to because I can read other people's body language. And the body language they give off is pretty damn obvious: they're fearful and suspicious of me because of my name, my religious belief and the way I dress. I don't have trouble talking to people, people have a hard time convincing themselves to talk to me, even if inside they truly want to.
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Kinda silly. People react and respond differently in different "environments". If your in Paris and no one makes eye contact then you're just an American walking down the street being rude trying to make eye contact. Isn't it the same in New York? Yes, I'm from Texas and went to Paris and was completely disturbed that no one would make eye contact!! But I asked about it and found the answer that these people don't make eye contact because they find it aggressive. So did I change myself? No. I just accepted that they may have found me aggressive lol. However, I may have completely messed up some French sensibilities when I saved a woman from falling off the curb by grabbing her and yanking her back as she fell all the while speaking in English which she may or may not have understood. How's that for contact!!
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Not everyone is dealing with their feelings as an open book that others can read it. On the other hand, the isolation can lead away from friends or new people and new experiences may lead to disabling your development Personality. Learn to open up so you can improve your health mental, social and able to live life multiply, richer and deeper.
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My mam told me that I shouldn't talk to strangers cause they might hurt me. Then I get hurt by people who close to me